Lets see... Oh yeah, there's not much you can do except be better; in every part, unless you plan on taking care of it yourself. Enabling, do it with the right person and the results can keep you in a job.; spare the rod and spoil the child. A better choice would be not to become the rod but just be the better person.

On Right Action

"Codes of ethics are most often associated with prohibitions: Don't do this, don't do that. All the spiritual traditions I know have more or less the same lists of don'ts. This makes sense, since all the don'ts elaborate on the awareness that if we are not alert, our naturally arising impulses of greed and anger might lead us to do something exploitive or abusive. The fundamental rule is, 'Don't cause pain.'

Traditional Buddhist texts, when they talk about Right Action, use the terms hiri and ottappa, usually translated as 'moral shame' and 'moral dread.' Shame and dread have ominous overtones in English, but I rather like these terms. I appreciate the sense of awesome responsibility they are meant to convey. Collectively, what they mean is that every single act we do has the potential of causing pain, and every single thing we do has consequences that echo way beyond what we can imagine. It doesn't mean we shouldn't act. It means we should act carefully. Everything matters."

(from It's Easier Than You Think: The Buddhist Way to Happiness, by Sylvia Boorstein, page 41. Published by Harper San Francisco

"Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute; and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. THAT'S relativity" ~Albert Einstein

"It's the good girls who keep diaries; the bad girls never have the time" ~Tallulah Bankhead

"I went out last night and all the girls ignored me" ~Leonardo DiCaprio

I helped a little old lady walk across the street. I did it cause she needed help and cause I wanted to help.

You know, those days when you wanna say something too someone, especially when you know your are 100% right, but, its not worth saying it cause you'll be a doodoo drop for saying it? Well It happened today, I kept my mouth shut... Afterward there was kind of a feeling of being cheated there...

Sometimes I guess it's best to just keep it to myself, and be grateful that I know better, which kinda sucks.

I'll share, I always share, it's instinctive with me it's how I was raised. But lately, what I am, what I know and what I have done is something I think should be little more privet these days...